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To Truly Live, I Needed to Die

We’re dead either way. The grace is that we get to choose which death we die.

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The Gospel Coalition: Gospelbound

I had a chance to chat with Collin Hansen at TGC on his podcast about Born Again This Way.

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Review: Gently and Lowly by Dane Ortlund

You’ve heard it said that perfect love can cast out fear. When was the last time you felt it?

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Friendship When You Could *Like* Like Someone

There is a lingering question, a posed threat: Does our potential towards forming romantic and sexual attraction in these friendships doom them from the start?

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The Good Book Company

I got to join my publisher, The Good Book Company, for an episode of their podcast to talk about my book Born Again This Way.

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Coming Out and Coming to Faith

I became a Christian much to my own surprise. It was as if the sun of the gospel had evaporated my atheism in an instant.  

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My Same-Sex Attraction Has an Answer

When  I wrote my first article on being a same-sex-attracted Christian, what  surprised me most were the emails I started receiving from straight men.  The notes often came from men my parents’ age, the same message nestled again and again into my inbox: “I never expected this to help me.”

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Hole In My Heart Ministries

I got to join my friend Laurie Krieg a second time on her great, gospel-saturated podcast to talk about a chapter from my book Born Again This Way, on the theme of friendship as family.

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Theology in the Raw with Preston Sprinkle

I got to join my publisher, Preston Sprinkle, for an episode of his podcast.

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'Nickel Boys' and the double victory of love over racial injustice

Tucked into Pulitzer Prize-winning author Colson Whitehead’s newest novel, Nickel Boys, is an absolutely Christian understanding of sin.

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Christians & Sexual Reputation

Of course sex is intensely personal. But we can’t escape that it is just as intensely social.

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Reconciled Reconcilers

Nothing can rip us up quite like the tension between a desire to share the gospel with our gay friends and the fear that to do so would somehow harm them. We wonder if the good news will sound so good when it comes to the sexuality part.

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Sons Like Plants, Daughters Like Pillars

Our evangelical instinct to turn to the scriptures may occasionally turn up surprises for us, however, when it comes to gender. This is exactly what happened to me in Psalm 144.

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In the Face of Sexual Temptation, Repression is a Sure-Fire Failure

Repression and avoidance are unbiblical responses to desire, no more Christian, perhaps, than atheistic abandonment to it.

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"Gay" vs. "Same-Sex Attracted": A Dialogue

Last month I was invited to have a public conversation with my friend Greg Coles about a very sensitive topic: whether or not someone should call themselves a “gay” or “queer” Christian.

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Does She Spark Joy? Sorting Through Marie Kondo

I didn’t seek out Marie Kondo, but I can’t seem to escape her.

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DeYoung on the 10 Commandments

DeYoung isn’t interested in shaming the church for our lack of knowledge. He’s interested in equipping us for holiness and mission.

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Loving Our Transgender Neighbors

How do you know you are a woman or a man?

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Learn the Bible's Story to Understand Your Own

Have you ever tried to picture heaven and worried you’ll be bored?

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I Found Hope in my Husband's Chronic Illness

My husband Andrew’s foot ailments have given me a curious window into the Christian life.